What Makes a Woman Feel Romantic?

Making women feel romantic has been an age-old challenge for many men and women in the dating world. It’s quite complex considering the diverse personalities and preferred love languages of different women. There’s no one-size-fits-all romance template. You must know and understand a woman to strike the right romantic feeling(s). 

However, there’re several basics you can tap into to show appreciation and express feelings. Check them out below.

10 Ways to Be Romantic to a Woman

1. Compliment Her

Women love compliments. More so, genuine compliments on her looks and personality. They make a woman feel good about herself and show you appreciate her presence in your life. But, don’t overdo the compliments because that would seem ingenuine and sends a totally different message. Be thoughtful and simply tell her about her best attributes.

2. Send Her Written Love Notes or Text Messages

Random love notes and text messages are easy ways to endear yourself to a woman. You don’t have to be overly poetic. Simple. Honest, and endearing words about your feelings towards her would do the trick. You can leave the notes in places she would find when she wakes up or send love cards to her place of work.

Text messages are even better because you simply type and send. You can even include emojis, Gifs, and other digital media to add flair to your message.

3. Surprise! Surprise! Surprise!

Women enjoy and cherish surprises. Especially the ones that warm their hearts. What surprises are these, you ask? Well, for starters, a romantic getaway is a good way to escape the monotony of day-to-day life and recharge your love life in scenic destinations.

Another good surprise would be a party on a special occasion like a birthday or anniversary. It would mean a lot to her that you not only remembered but also planned the party. A surprise visit is also ideal if you don’t stay together and haven’t seen each other in a while.

4. Cook Her Favourite Meal

Cook her favourite meal and watch as she savours every bite with love. Go the extra mile and set up the table with candles and flowers for a more intimate feel. Be sure to clean the dishes afterwards so that she doesn’t have to worry about them. You can end the evening by watching one of her favourite movies. 

5. Take Her on a Date

For years, going out on a date has been the ultimate show of romance for couples. Usually, a date kickstarts most relationships. This is because women love to be asked on a date. So, to keep your romantic flame burning, you should probably take her where it all began—your first date restaurant and enjoy a hearty meal in a relaxed ambience, a range of classic wines, and each other’s company.

If you’re going to one of the famous joints in town, make reservations and call to confirm before leaving for the date. Later, you can take an evening walk together, go to the movies or find a theatre showing a romantic play.

6. Make Her Laugh

Share light moments with her, and she’ll always look forward to spending time with you. After all, they say a couple that laughs together stays together. For even more laughter, attend comedy nights where her favourite stand-up comedian is performing or watch a comedy movie while cuddling up at home. 

7. Buy Her Gifts 

Send her gifts regularly as a show of appreciation. You don’t have to go for expensive items. Things like her favourite chocolate and flowers, a customized journal, a coffee mug with a special message on it, and even a beautiful pair of earrings, will get your woman feeling over the moon.

Random gifts show a woman that you’re always thinking about her. If you need gift ideas, pay attention whenever she talks of things she likes, or ask her close friends. Better still, take her shopping once in a while so that she can pick what she likes.

8. Set the Mood for Intimacy

Physical intimacy is like the peak of romance. It’s one of the most fulfilling ways to express your desire for a woman. So, take time to explore her sensuality and any related fantasies. Also, pay attention to her needs and fulfil them. And, be open to spicing things up with new tips and tricks.

9. Pamper Her

One of the best and easiest ways to ignite a woman’s romantic feelings is to pamper her. First, give her a massage after a long day. A full body massage will relax her muscles and mind, and trigger the feel-good hormones. Ideally, you can book a couples massage with a luxurious massage agency and let experienced masseurs and masseuses work on both of you.

Also, you can take over her tasks around the home while she relaxes. Prepare her bath and treat her like a queen. In the morning, make her favourite breakfast and serve her in bed. 

10. Spend Uninterrupted Time With Her

Amidst busy schedules and commitments, you should create time to spend with your woman to make her feel romantic. Give her undivided attention and communicate freely about feelings and everything in between. She will feel valued and be more open to sharing things with you.


To wrap up, we’ll remind you that it’s the small things that matter. Therefore, don’t overthink a romance strategy. Your woman will appreciate the little gestures.